- dating phase just started when he moved abroad?
i only just started dating this great man - when soon later he told me he would be moving back home (America) for work. He's a great guy and i think we would have had a great chance to go on dating if only.... Since the day he told me about his departure, he changed and avoided me. We were texting a bit but he appeared to have no time to meet. On the last weekend before his departue, we however met coincidently and he flirted a LOT but still acting contradictory. Soon later he moved back to America. Now i think about contacting him but am not sure whether it's a good idea (because he was not very charming towards the end - flirting a lot - but never even saying goodbye. However he might be back in my country soon enough) - So what do you think, is he worth contacting, even though having been very uncharming before departure? Does he care? Would it make any difference if he knew that i care?
full story:
met this american guy in switzerland + i had the impression that he really liked me a lot.
he wanted to see me, so we started dating a couple of times - when he suddenly told me he would soonish move back home to America (to look for a job). Apparently the decision was taken spontaneously as job situation better back home. Well, ever since this statement he avoided meeting me but stayed nice and friendly. Coincidentally, shortly before his departure, i met him in the night.... and he flirted like crazy. However in the same night he behaved controversal (*flirting* and finally *escaping*) He pretended he should spend the night with his guy-friends who were there too. That was just fine. He wanted to see me the other day but.... never kept his promise (called me instead saying he was busy) Again he tried to see me on the last day in Switzerland but did not make it finally + did not even text me goodbye :-(
i feel so stupid now as i started falling in love with him + thought we would have lots of time. he's a nice man - a so called good guy - but his behaviour leaves me without a clue. What the heck happened?? i would love to write him a short notice but i had the impression that feelings were nothing he wanted to share with me (at least not from the moment when he decided to leave my country) How stupid is that - i think we would have great potential as a couple ;) yes.. i know.. thinking too far.. but think it's true. I can't get him off my mind + start to miss him quite a bit :(
full story:
met this american guy in switzerland + i had the impression that he really liked me a lot.
he wanted to see me, so we started dating a couple of times - when he suddenly told me he would soonish move back home to America (to look for a job). Apparently the decision was taken spontaneously as job situation better back home. Well, ever since this statement he avoided meeting me but stayed nice and friendly. Coincidentally, shortly before his departure, i met him in the night.... and he flirted like crazy. However in the same night he behaved controversal (*flirting* and finally *escaping*) He pretended he should spend the night with his guy-friends who were there too. That was just fine. He wanted to see me the other day but.... never kept his promise (called me instead saying he was busy) Again he tried to see me on the last day in Switzerland but did not make it finally + did not even text me goodbye :-(
i feel so stupid now as i started falling in love with him + thought we would have lots of time. he's a nice man - a so called good guy - but his behaviour leaves me without a clue. What the heck happened?? i would love to write him a short notice but i had the impression that feelings were nothing he wanted to share with me (at least not from the moment when he decided to leave my country) How stupid is that - i think we would have great potential as a couple ;) yes.. i know.. thinking too far.. but think it's true. I can't get him off my mind + start to miss him quite a bit :(
